3 lemon orange sponge pudding Recipes

sponge cakes (or 6 sponge cake cups), fresh ripe mango, peeled and chopped into small pieces, prepared lemon flavor instant pudding and pie filling, flaked coconut (divided ), fresh kiwi fruits, peeled and sliced very thinly, mandarin orange segments, well drained, pineapple tidbits, well drained, vanilla instant pudding mix (i use jello, type that serves 4 and does not require cooking), milk, cool whip

sugar, butter, grated orange rind or 2 tsp lemon rind, egg yolks, flour, orange juice or 1/4 cup lemon juice, milk, egg whites , beaten stiff, not dry