3 mandarin orange sponge Recipes

sponge cakes (or 6 sponge cake cups), fresh ripe mango, peeled and chopped into small pieces, prepared lemon flavor instant pudding and pie filling, flaked coconut (divided ), fresh kiwi fruits, peeled and sliced very thinly, mandarin orange segments, well drained, pineapple tidbits, well drained, vanilla instant pudding mix (i use jello, type that serves 4 and does not require cooking), milk, cool whip

sugar, divided, flour, cinnamon, milk, eggs, separated, butter, vanilla, almond extract, sponge cakes, sliced or 24 ladyfingers, apricot jam, sliced papayas (or a combination of bananas and mandarin oranges), cointreau liqueur or 1/4 cup brandy, cream of tartar, whipping cream, chocolate curls , for decoration