1. Grind the Oreos in a food processor or put them in a ziploc bag and use a rolling pin to mash them up into a dirty powder.
2. Cream softened butter and neufchatel cheese with confectioner's sugar.
3. In a separate bowl, combine the pudding mixes and milk, slowly fold in thawed Cool Whip.
4. Combine the creamed cheese and pudding bowls.
5. Line the bottom of a clean, unused flowerpot with foil.
6. Pour in 1/3 of the pudding mixture.
7. Pour in 1/3 of the ground Oreos.
8. Repeat and finish with layer of Oreos.
9. Refrigerate for 2 hours or overnight. Garnish with a bunch of plastic flowers (clean the plastic stem first).
10. Enjoy! It's still not a diet food, but it's a little less fatty/sugary.